I need some advice on bridesmaid dresses!?

I had found a bridesmaid dress that I love and would go wonderfully with what I want for my wedding (i dont have a date yet). However when I showed it to the girls in my party they all hated it- they want to wear something else. The dress I picked was a completely wearable dress and on the cheaper side but because they are plus-sized they said it would look horrible. I have had some people say that it's my wedding and I should have what I want but I don't want to hear a lot of complaining. I have been in 2 weddings and had to pay for expensive dresses that I can never wear again. One I was able to donate to charity because it was still kinda pretty but the other I wouldn't dare make someone else wear it.